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For many, the holiday season is a time of joy and celebration — but it can often bring loneliness and isolation for older adults. 

Steve Morrison, a volunteer with AARP Virginia, described the holidays as the worst time for isolation — a challenge he knows well after years of caregiving for his wife. 

He highlighted mobility as a significant issue for older adults with limited ability to walk, access transportation and manage health challenges. 

Drawing from his own experiences, Morrison has been addressing isolation through community-building efforts, a mission he began well before the Covid-19 pandemic intensified the problem. 

“You have to get out there some way, either online, by phone, or in conversation with neighbors, and let people know that you’re in isolation and you just need someone to talk to,” Morrison said. “At least in my neighborhood, that has worked for me and for others. The neighbors have really stepped up.” 

Morrison launched a monthly luncheon in McLean, Virginia, to help people connect over a meal. 

The initiative has been a success, with up to 50 attendees per event, though he now caps it at 40 people. 

He recommended resources like the National Institute on Aging (bit.ly/NIHholiday), and AARP’s Connect2Affect program (connect2affect.org), which offer tools to assess isolation, find volunteer opportunities, and access local support. 

While Morrison’s program is one of the few remaining events in his area since Covid, he said he hopes to inspire others to create similar opportunities. 

He said he was deeply moved by how his neighbors rallied to provide meals when surgeries left him and his wife homebound. 

“You just gotta be proactive. Even though you may be limited to transportation or your mobility. You just got to let people know, you have neighbors close by that are more than willing to help,” Morisson said. “That would be the first place that I would start. But these other websites, if you have technology options, all have really good suggestions.” 

According to AARP, there is a 26% increased risk of early death due to feeling lonely. 

Some other tips to combat isolation include adopting a pet, signing up for classes at your local library, restarting an old hobby, or scheduling set times to interact with family and friends — in person, by email, social media (in moderation), phone call or text.